Hot! 30 Thing You Must Know Before You Start Dating (Must Read)

Love and dating are two sweet things everyone wish to experience, but for you to enjoy it, you must follow and learn certain guidelines that will guide and help you make the most out of your relationship. 
 
Many people just jump into a relationship no wonder they run as fast as they rushed into it. For you to have a good lasting relationship, you must learn and study these guides to help you know how to make the best out of your relationship. Dolly Alderton has dished these interesting facts that is very handy. Enjoy.
 
1. A good relationship is one where you take turns to be the parent for each other. A bad one is when this is unbalanced. Partners should both need each other equally, at different times, for different reasons.
 
2. Of course a first date should not be an activity, you mad asshat. Stop making it complicated. You should only ever be eating, drinking, talking or snogging on a first date. 
 
3. The perineum is not just a mountain range between France and Spain.
 
4. In a relationship, the woman will always integrate into the man’s life more easily than he does into hers. I have never seen it happen the other way round. She’ll go to all his friends’ birthdays, she’ll do the group holidays and she’ll befriend all his friend’s girlfriends. It’s not because she finds the integration process more enjoyable than he does, she just finds it easier.
 
5. If you really like someone, you really should not have s*x with them on the first date. Sorry. I know. Annoying.
 
6. The greatest, filthiest, nastiest, most exciting s*x you will ever have will be with someone you’re in love with. Sorry. I know. Boring.
 
7. If you are having doubts about your relationship — this is the litmus test: Imagine you can go into a room, press a red button and it’s all over. No break up conversation, no guilt, no tears, you just press the button and it’s done. If that were an option, would you do it? Yes? Then you need to break up with them now.
 
8. Moving in with your partner too soon is relationship anthrax. Leave it for as long as possible.
 
9. Buying a pet in a relationship is a bigger deal than buying a house. 
 
10. You should have s*x with as many people as you want, but you should always be careful with their heart, your heart and contraceptive methods. 
 
11. Mischief is what ties a couple together. Lust inevitably fades, mischief will be thrilling forever. Have cruel nicknames, get pissed, go on adventures, break rules. The couple that pranks together, stays together.
 
12. Being single is a gift. It’s incredibly freeing and almost always not forever. Use the time to get really, really happy with yourself. Don’t use it to run around chasing love.
 
12a. You will only meet someone truly great when they find you at your best. Being saved will never work.
 
13. The bit about breakups they never warn you of is how many things that end other than the relationship. You’ll lose friends, you won’t be able to listen to certain albums anymore and there are places you’ll never want to visit again. Memory association is the fuck-tonne of salt poured into the wound of a break-up.
 
14. A man who pushes pubic hair preference on a woman is no man at all. She ain’t no topiary bush for you to play with, pal.
 
15. You will nearly always fall for the person you didn’t think was your type.
 
 
16. If women fake orgasms it’s nearly always because they feel guilty if they don’t.
 
17. If women fake orgasms, they stop a few years after having s*x.
 
18. A woman doesn’t always orgasm.
 
19. The most irritating feeling in the whole, entire world is when your partner is drunk and you are not and they are talking loudly to a group of people.
 
20. Intimacy is amazing. Eating Chinese food together in your underwear is amazing. Familiarising yourself with every millimetre of someone’s naked body is wonderful. So is wearing their holey jumper that smells like them. Proper intimacy is not something to be afraid of — it's fucking amazing. 
 
21. Over familiarity is not amazing. Do not for a second think sitting in front of the TV in silence is intimacy. Or farting without saying sorry. Taking each other for granted is not intimacy. It’s absolutely horrible.
 
22. There is no such thing as a boob man or a leg man or an arse man. Men are naked women men. 
 
23. Love can disappear for no reason other than people growing up and changing.  
 
24. Most petty rows can be resolved with a quick, giggly shag in a bar/restaurant loo.
 
25. Men get off on visuals in a way that women don't. Keep your dick photos to yourself, it does absolutely nothing for her. It's just like sending her a photo of a chair or a shelving unit. 
 
26. The worst thing to hear when you're being dumped is that the person doesn't fancy you anymore. 
 
27. Break ups get easier as you get older. The first time you get dumped will be the worst it ever gets. You’ll feel as lost as a little kid, wondering how you’re ever going to put yourself back together and re-learn everything.
 
28. A relationship is meant to be quite easy. It’s not meant to be all shouty, teary histrionics; there is no fun to be had in this. It’s meant to mainly just be a joy.  
 
29. Flirting is a load of old nonsense. Take a look at the first texts you exchanged in your current relationship. Meaningless, silly, nonsensical, round-about, inconsequential, embarrassing blabber about nothing. But, yeah, it’s important.
 
30. There is no feeling more wonderful than when you first fall in love. And as corny as it is, there’s no bloody avoiding it. You think you’ve felt all the feelings possible and then it hits you — bam — a brand new one. Like suddenly experiencing hunger or lust or jealousy for the first time — there is love. It rampages through your entire body, awakening every cell and fibre as it goes. It turns you into a raving lunatic. You’ll notice the beautiful way the sun falls and the blossomy smell of the air. You’ll want to be just excellent to everyone. You’d happily empty your pockets and give it to anyone who needs it. You’ll wonder why anyone ever gets bothered about anything if they know this feeling exists. And suddenly you know everything will always be fine because you know, somewhere, this feeling exists.
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